Erica Zhao (A Mother of 3 Children)

HER Voice

Hello! I am Erica Zhao ,a Mother of 3 Children: Rayden aged 12, Ryzelle aged 10, and Rayan age 7.

I’ve retired from full-time employment and embraced a new chapter as a full-time content creator with a passion for travel. Living life to the fullest is now my top priority - and I’m enjoying every moment of it!

HER Story

As a modern mom with a traditional mindset, I’ve always believed in honoring both personal growth and family values. My husband, being the eldest son in his family, carries a sense of responsibility deeply rooted in tradition. I felt it was part of my role as a wife to support that legacy—including the decision to have at least two children.

To be honest, I wasn’t fully prepared for parenting—I simply went with the flow. Thankfully, I had plenty of support along the way, which made the journey much smoother and far less overwhelming than I had imagined.

I relied heavily on Google during my first pregnancy, along with advice from friends who were already parents. That first journey was definitely full of surprises—I had no idea what to expect! Thankfully, by the time I had my second and third pregnancies, I felt much more prepared and everything became a lot more manageable.

One of the most rewarding moments in motherhood is when my kids show appreciation on their own—whether it’s through kind words or sweet gestures. It reminds me that all the little things I do truly matter.

Breastfeeding was the hardest period.

Seeing other parents go the extra mile for their children truly inspires me. It reminds me that parenting is a continuous journey of growth, and it motivates me to keep striving to be the best version of myself for my own kids.

HER Growth

I’ve always believed that before I became a mother, I was first me, an individual with my own identity. Motherhood is a part of who I am, but it doesn’t define me entirely. I strive to honour all parts of myself: as an individual, a wife, a mum, and a daughter. Balancing these roles helps me stay grounded and true to who I am.

What is your personal motto?

Do you have any word of advice for other parents who are starting their own families?

I will meet up with my friends as they recharge me and also go for my wellness sessions.

How do you care for yourself now?

Cherish the first six years of your child’s life, those are truly the most blissful and joy-filled moments. Once they begin formal schooling, the dynamics shift. That’s when the real challenge begins, juggling schoolwork, setting routines, and managing expectations becomes part of daily life.

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